tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post5631531733747442835..comments2023-11-17T20:49:38.441-08:00Comments on Veni,Vidi,Vetti: Dear men,Subshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12879552066331780176noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post-91149984029067704432012-04-11T11:14:06.561-07:002012-04-11T11:14:06.561-07:00very nice post indeed..could've been titles as...very nice post indeed..could've been titles as 'a short guide to the frustrated boy-friend' i guess ;-)..just responding to one of the things you listed..I dont think girls mostly mean it when they say "i want to be alone for sometime"...i guess thats the time they want him to be there and make her feel wanted..what say? :-D<br /><br />Happy Blogging!!!Vatsal Rathodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02606061469528993059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post-27451419567526905772011-03-19T12:34:01.207-07:002011-03-19T12:34:01.207-07:00@Subs: thanks :)
And my point was not abt educate...@Subs: thanks :) <br />And my point was not abt educated men, but any educated women who think they are ' modern', not being truly 'educated' and 'modern'.. <br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0DB3LlleFE<br />Watch and be in awe of these 'educated' women..<br /><br />and I know you are clever enough to respond ;) but that post was from personal experience.. Hence the raw feelings..<br /><br />Anyway, just don't expect too much from us. To get all you want, Section 377 is your only way out.. :oVinothraj Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08797895577395747782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post-44279649832405502692011-03-19T09:14:48.938-07:002011-03-19T09:14:48.938-07:00@SHN..Do it on my FB :) Thanks a lot :)
@Vinoth.....@SHN..Do it on my FB :) Thanks a lot :)<br /><br />@Vinoth..awesome :) But I can retort every point. We marry guys with all that qualifications because it is not us who have problems with highly educated women but you :)Subshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12879552066331780176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post-7829996936212910872011-03-16T09:30:41.649-07:002011-03-16T09:30:41.649-07:00One last question that has been nagging my mind as...One last question that has been nagging my mind as well. When we have to satisfy so many emotional needs, why do you marry the guy who has an MBA, a salary twice mine, and comes from a "good" family? Can you not respect me and my feelings, the same way I respect yours?<br /><br />P.S. I understand that not all men would even have the patience to go beyond my first point. For those who did. Wow! Even I didn't have the patience to re-read what i wrote! Hence i highly doubt you'd copy this into your blog, and therefore i do not request you to do so! :PVinothraj Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08797895577395747782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post-45553082178061485522011-03-16T09:30:23.805-07:002011-03-16T09:30:23.805-07:00@Subs: NOM :) Just my thoughts stated out as you h...@Subs: NOM :) Just my thoughts stated out as you have poured yours out.. (and because i still haven't started that non-poetry blog, a comment on yours should do :D )<br /><br />-------<br /><br /><br />No, this is not a misogynistic post, or a chauvnistic post. This is not another post where every guy is seen as an insensitive jerk, and every girl as a real life version of those from saas-bahu serials.<br /><br />This is for those 'women', a major set of the human gender, who think they are the reason the world goes round. Maybe, it's true. <br /><br />(1) We know you are confused. Women are emotional, and every guy (jerk or otherwise) knows this through a variety of chick-flicks. Some of us don't like it being used as a blanket excuse every time you can't make a decision. Some women want to be leaders. Nothing wrong in that. But to put on a fake macho mask, or to give the "Oh, i'm confused" excuse, remember a guy never says that. A guy can't say that. To admit we are confused, is to admit we are defeated. And we are programmed not to accept defeat.<br /><br />(2) We are sick of jokes made on us, yes you know what kind of jokes. Those related to our purchasing power, resPonsibility and passion (theres another P, but i'll reserve that for another conversation)<br />Women might laugh at our jokes, but there are very few women who crack a witty joke to make a guy laugh *hmph*<br /><br />(3) You might be lost when it comes to direction. For that, there is GPS. We men NEVER ask for directions when lost. And there is no gadget to help us on that.<br />(Read the book "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps)<br /><br />We do not remember names and dates because we don't associate emotions and feelings with numbers, but with events. The only numbers and dates we remember are the runs Tendulkar scored and when, the amount left in our bank balances after salary-day, and 31st March (end of the financial year :P )<br /><br />(4) Hey! We are jealous too! We hate it when you talk to us about how hot the tall guy from class is.<br />We are consious of our looks. This is why we get into fights with other guys over you. We are a possessive and an insecure lot. The reason we question women about the guy they smiled at, is the same reason women would NAG us to death about why our eyes lingered for a second too long at the chick in front of us at the queue.<br /><br />(5) Dressing up isnt what we look for. We look for a girl who knows how to take care of her looks, and is presentable. Just as every girl wants to be seen with a tall, dark handsome man with a six-pack.. in a suit. Alas! We don't have the money for an Armani.. or a six-pack..<br /><br />(6) When you fought so long and hard with the system, and struggled to get educated, why can you not struggle with your parents for the boy who'd give his heart to you? Why would you not struggle against an arranged marriage, and that boring life that you'd spend at home?<br /><br />(7),(8) [No comment because i have no experience/no idea on whats being spoken in these points.]<br /><br />(9) We might be seen to pay for anything, but to us it is not about the money, its about the company you provide. Ask a guy if the 10$ coffee he paid for you was <br /><br />(10) Those seven missed calls were to show we care. To show that you need to bear anything alone. Because when you said you wanted to be alone, it implies something is wrong, and you need a shoulder to lean on. And what good is a man, if he cannot be a shoulder to lean on.<br /><br />(11) Like fingerprints, every guy is also dirty. Oops, different. Well, most aren't. Most are jerks. Take it from a guy like me. But why women are attracted to those jerks, is still beyond me.<br /><br />(12) We appreciate women. But understand that most men are not articulate. Those doors we held open, that call we answered at 1a.m... Every little thing we do, is a sign of appreciation. I'm sorry you missed it.<br />As for men, only jerks will ask to be appreciated. The good ones will make do with a little understanding. That we are not perfect.<br />(Read the book "Why Men Lie, and Women Cry")Vinothraj Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08797895577395747782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7493849629629752821.post-27828469759965326672011-03-16T01:08:57.139-07:002011-03-16T01:08:57.139-07:00Now if only there is an option to LIKE this post.....Now if only there is an option to LIKE this post.. :)Shnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08189837817081314487noreply@blogger.com